To desire, to sex has always been frequent and passionate – normally. But usually it becomes less frequent with time, and this is normal too. And the most pleasant thing: you can return everything! Women in long terms shared their positive experiences.
1. Do not turn it into a routine
“ We have been married for seven years. I do not like the idea, that sex should always be passionate and joyful, but also make him the duty is not necessary. We often try new things, and this is the key to our success, “- Vera, 30 years old.
“Communicate, be open, leave the comfort zone for the sake of experimentation. Of course, if you trust each other! “- Marina, 29 years old.
3. Let it be spontaneous
“ Sometimes I put on erotic underwear and literally attack him. We never plan sex, but we like to be close to each other. In life, there were all, and now we literally can not see enough of each other “, – Yana, 34 years old.
4. Talk about sex
“ From the very beginning, we agreed not to suppress problems, so sex was discussed a lot and often. But with him there are no problems: we constantly try new things, we come up with something … Children, of course, sometimes interfere with the plans, but we have made sex a high priority and we never forget about it, “Karina, 30 years old.
5. Do not pursue an orgasm
“ Sex is a pleasant entertainment, but it’s important to think not only about the ultimate goal but about the process itself. We like to be very close, to touch the bodies, kissing and hugging … If you want to live a long time with a person, you need to enjoy every minute, held together “- Maya, 34 years.